has it been over a month already?

Unknown. I hardly believe that was the case where home was. I can hardly imagine that that person wasn't missed at the dinner table. The empty spot in the church pew. The precious items left behind are insignificant to the survivors.

Unknown. Not to the commander. Not to his company.

Unknown. Maybe specific identity unknown would be a better headstone. Listed among the missing. Memorialized for eternity.

Known.